Hello. I hope everyone is well. Almost six months ago, we adopted a four month old poodle puppy from a group that rescued his mother from a hoarding situation. We think he spent the first four months of his life in a basement with about 15 other dogs.
When we first brought him home, he was afraid of everything. It took a good while to get him to go outside and every noise he heard sent him running. He has made great progress over the last few months. Sounds don’t scare him like they once did and he will go on short walks now. There are three main things that we are struggling to resolve and any help that can be provided would be amazing.
He loses his little mind when I take out the trash. The moment he hears the bag rustle, he starts barking and growling. I usually keep him behind a gate when I am getting the trash ready so he stands up on two legs barking his head off. When I walk past him with the trash, he tries to bite the bag and sometimes, my clothes. I tried letting him sniff empty trash bags and reward him for being calm, but that hasn’t helped. At one time, I thought it was because the noise reminds him of some of his toys, but his barking seems more angry than playful. He doesn’t react like this when I do anything with a trash bag outside, just inside.
His barking is getting worse. I think he barks for two main reasons. In one instance, I think it is because we are not doing what he wants. I considered that it was because he wanted our attention, but we give him a ton of attention. We tried turning our back or leaving the room when he barks, but that just seems to make him angrier. It turns the dial from a 5 to a 10. In the second instance, I think it is because he hears something outside at night. The only truly quiet part of the house is the bathroom and we can’t put him in there. We try to turn up the TV to drown out the noise, but that doesn’t work. We try to distract him with play, but the moment we stop, he is back at it. There are cats that roam the neighborhood freely so we think it could be them and there is not much we can do about them.
He has started biting my mother. Most of the time, it isn’t hard, but he did break skin recently when she was picking up a pillow. I thought we had gotten him past the puppy biting, but it seems like he has regressed with her. He still doesn’t bite me. He spends a lot of time with her during the day and she does seem to be his favorite. He has separation anxiety and it is worse when she is gone than when I leave. She doesn’t do much training with him due to mobility issues. He seems to do it out of frustration because he wants something from her, but we don’t know what.
Thank you for any advice you can give.